So what is step 1?
The year that follows is going to involve a ton of faith and belief in the logistics of the United States Navy, the Department of Defense, the TSA, moving companies, realtors, bank accounts, banks themselves, the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit.
The month of August marks what is the 1 year mark of what remains of my United States naval career. It is the winding down but likely the most significant sequence of events that will occur thus far in my first 32 years on this earth, my familyβs first 5 in existence. I feel the call of what might as well be the spirit of Manifest Destiny on the horizon. Exploration, life experiences that I can never forget, life long friends that I will have cemented and the courage to do it all and see it all. All of this is before the long haul back home to settle down in our first family home and the beginnings of life with what will be our new family of 5, and the 30 year mortgage.
This is one last hurrah in the Navy doing what I thought the Navy was always going to be. The Navy was supposed to be traveling the world and seeing sights a many. The Navy was supposed to be learning new languages and finding a wife maybe. The Navy was going to be the maturation of Zachary Schoen. It turned out to be most of those things except what most everyone I know thinks of the navy for outside of war time, exploration and traveling the world.

Over the course of my first 7 years in the Navy I have spent most of it in mostly stagnant situations. My first command was based out of Whidbey Island in the pacific northwest, a βshoreβ command. NCTAMS PAC DETACHMENT PUGET SOUND TACTICAL SUPORT COMMUNICATIONS βTSCOMMβ WHIDBEY ISLAND. Its a mouthful which many command titles are. Our mission mainly provided secure satellite radio and digital communications for Lockheed Martin P-3 and Boeing P-8 submarine hunting and surveillance missions. This includes us sitting in a dark windowless room maintaining those devices and machines and the radio circuits they provide, for 3 years. So it was cool and an ok introduction to the navy but not the βNAVYβ I was promised.
Although something did happen while I was there though.
I met a wonderful woman and now the mother of my going on 3 beautiful children. Jessica, I found you. I never thought it would happen but it did and you actually exist. You are the woman that my Mom always promised existed. She always said something to the effect of βIts going to happen to you one day and there isnβt anything youβre going to be able to do about itβ. From the very beginning Jessica, you were undeniable. Everything in me said and still says yes to you. We are building something special and I canβt wait to take you on many more adventures until βdeath do us partβ. Its true.
I found βherβ. It was like it was straight out of a movie. Clicheβ I know, but it fits.

My second four years is shaping up to end on a high note. This ship, the USS Blue Ridge (LCC 19) is going to be able to perform its tour of our AOR (area of responsibility) for the first time in almost a couple years. We have been sitting tied to Berth No. 9 on the pier for a vast majority of those 2 years. Prior to pandemic drama, the βBlue Ridgeβ promise was famously or notoriously said, that this ship is the best in the navy when it comes to visiting and traveling to foreign ports. Myself and fellow crew of approximately 1000 will make a trek in the waters of China, Japan, Korea, the Philippines et cetera serving as the United Stateβs 7th Fleet flag ship.
Memories will be made and money will be spent. Iβm hoping that I will be able to get Jessica and company to be able to visit me while we are in a nicer port abroad. Her and the 3 βchitlinsβ to coin a word from my aforementioned mother are going to make this a difficult ask but we certainly will figure something out.
When this ship comes back to home port Yokosuka, I will be in my last few months as an active navy sailor. I still have decisions to make in terms of joining into the reserves et cetera but I know at this point that I am no longer willing to be active and abroad. Its time to go home and grow this beautiful family and its roots.
Now, here come the logisticsβ¦
The United States Navy has been responsible for me and/or my family and deciding where we go and live for what will be the most recent 8+ years of my life. Our final flight or any form of travel paid for by Uncle Sam himself from TYO Tokyo, Japan all the way to our eventual final destination of EVV Evansville, Indiana, USA will likely take place in August or September of 2023. This significant evolution will be the last thing organized and executed by the USN on behalf of my family for the rest of our lives and from then on, they will say,
βYOU FIGURE IT OUTβ.
We will arrive with our lives in bags in the stand alone terminal of the Great American and World Famous Evansville Regional Airport. We will be expecting our larger crate of our more permanent belongings to arrive sometime in the future. The navy generally moves at a snailβs pace so our bed and furniture for example will arrive sometime in the next few years or maybe quarter century. NBD.
During that time we will make due living with family for a brief stint while looking for a temporary apartment that can fit a family of five. All this while I start my work at my new job as an I.T. in the great new realm of civilian sector salaries.
This is going to be an eye opener. Have I been completely indoctrinated into the military life that I seem to regular people like a βmilitary manβ? Am I just going to look like that guy? I donβt think so, but how many times am I going to say I need to use the head or go eat chow, swab the deck, ironically say hoo-yah. etc before people make comments. Thatβs a small matter. Easy day.
Are we going to buy land? Are we gonna build? What about finding a realtor that isnβt just the friend of a friend of a friendβs realtor that they used one time during the divorce? Iβm excited to use a V.A. loan and other veteranβs resources to build that dream. I think we will stay in the Evansville area for a time but building or buying that home will likely lead us to the surrounding areas all while staying within a couple of hours of our Hoosier and Kentucky family roots.
Lake house anyone? I say we just do that, I retire and just start a bait and tackle business on Lake Barkley. Weβll send the kids to tech school and weβll all get awesome tans. Build the deck with that beautiful porch you see in Home & Garden and get into the Jet Ski rental business. Hell, local Eddyville, KY ice cream and burger staple Hu-Bβs just got destroyed by a tornado, maybe that land will be up for sale.
Done deal.
Hereβs to the next 365ish days. I love you.
Thank you for sharing, Zach, your thoughts, intentions & circumstances. It sounds like there will be some bittersweet times ahead. I know that you & Jessica are up for the challenges & good times. You are both strong & devoted to each other, & are wonderful parents & will find solutions for all that's in your future.With God the center of your life you have much to look forward to. Keep the faith! We love you & miss you very much and hope to see you as soon as possible. Nonie
Wonderful pictures and words, Zach. I love all the possibilities and all the positive talk about your future, and your family's future. Thanks also for the nod to the Bluegrass State and its possibilities. But, as is often said, you will figure it out, and who really knows for sure what calling you might follow over the next couple of years? So, here's a toast to the future of your family, and may the many, many years ahead bless all of you with rewarding experiences and happy memories. Hugs to you, Jessica, Owen, Beau and Little Miss Sunshine!